This is a topic I get emailed(email me here) about a lot: finding an online sugar daddy. So many email me complaining about how hard it is to find one, where should they look, etc. The answer really is simple. Go where men are. This same rule applies to virtual sex work.
Go Where The Men Are
There are places you can freestyle at to find an online sugar daddy. I would visit places that men frequent, which are sex sims. Strip clubs and private groups offer a wide variety of potential clients. Groups that you have to pay a fee to join usually have men who are willing to spend money and enter an arrangement.
There are sugar baby and sugar daddy groups you can join, but they can be full of time wasters. If someone contacts you about an arrangement, tell them your needs and ask if they can deliver. If they can’t prove themselves, move on. When I’m freestyling, I will give a conversation about 20 minutes of back and forth before I make a decision of if I want to keep entertaining them. Create a plan that’s best for you and follow it. Sometimes you may decide to talk to someone a little longer. Every conversation is different.
For freestyling or stripping – Visit Escort Oasis, find a pole, log in to a tip jar, and start dancing. You can also stand around, and you may receive a few messages asking for services. I recommend visiting at different times of the day. I also recommend visiting Tramps. They have decent traffic and have ad boards just like Escort Oasis.
Social Media Works If You Work it
Social media can seem like a lot of work for nothing when you’re getting started, but the key is to make it work for you. I created a new X account the last week of February, and my stats are good.
What works for me is commenting on trending posts and engaging with other online sex workers. My engagement rate is high at 3.7%. My stats have gone down a little because I haven’t been as active these past few days. I only have 35 followers, but the ones I do have engage, and I have received a few tributes and content sales from a couple of my X followers.
Your X should show your personality. If you take a look at my X, I don’t even advertise my services. I also don’t have any bio text. I have a link to my link site, and that’s it. I do mention the fetishes I enjoy sometimes in posts. This approach works for me. I decided I wanted my X to appear more vanilla. Sometimes I do post risky stuff, but I usually delete it later.
There are legitimate online sugar daddies on social media, but they will find you. I don’t recommend creating posts stating you’re an online sugar baby. Look the part. Post nice pictures and clips. X pushes those posts more because they favor that type of content.
You can get the online arrangement you seek, but you’re going to have to treat yourself like a business and market daily.